(Also, I apologize to all of you, and most especially to Evie Bea, for her facial expressions in some of these photos. I took pictures of her in a lot of her diapers for the original cloth diaper review when she was 3 months old. I just focused on capturing the diaper and didn't take multiple shots to get a cute facial expression.)
Prefolds: this is a staple of cloth diapering and I love them because they hold up beautifully through many washings, dry quickly and are flexible, meaning there are many ways to fold them depending on the size, age and gender of the baby. We used G*reen M*ountain Diapers (GMD) orange edge newborn prefolds for Evie when she was a newborn and they fit beautifully under newborn covers. She never wore many of her infant sized prefolds because they were always in use as burp cloths for our little formula fountain. Now we have some GMD large brown edge prefolds that work great for her at 19.5 pounds. In my opinion, GMD prefolds are the best because they are soft, fluffy, wonderfully absorbent and well-made. I prefer the unbleached cotton because it is hypothetically more absorbent than the bleached, though I haven't personally done a side-by-side comparison.
Here is Evie in a GMD orange edge prefold at one week old:
We also like the B*abyKicks h*emparoo prefolds, which are a hemp and cotton blend, but they are much more expensive than GMDs so we haven't used them as much.
You may be wondering, why fitted diapers? They are so expensive! How are they better than prefolds? Here is why they are worth the money for many moms:
*elastic at the waist and legs holds in poop
*plastic snaps (which are on many fitteds) are easier to negotiate in the middle of the night, while sleep deprived, and for husbands and other helpers who are scared of pins and S*nappis
*they are often made of organic, super-absorbent materials such as hemp and bamboo
*they have snap-in doublers for extra absorbency. The snap-in feature keeps the insert from bunching up.
*they are less bulky between the legs because they are...well..fitted. Fitted to the shape of a baby, unlike prefolds, which start out as a square or a rectangle.
There are many brands of fitteds available, many made by WAHMs (work-at-home moms) here in the U.S. In addition to the brands I named above, we also like S*cuttlebutts, B*aby B*eehinds, S*un S*eedlings and B*ubuBebe. If you want to buy the cutest fitteds, there is really only one place to go: H*yenacart. Enter at your own risk and with plenty of PayPal available.
Pockets: The only pocket diapers we've liked so far have been B*umgenius, which are one-size pocket diapers that use a snap-down rise to fit different size babies. They are the only pocket diapers we've tried that didn't leak or wick moisture onto Evie's clothes. We used them at night, stuffed with a hemp and microfiber combination that kept her dry and comfy for up to 13 hours when she was sleeping through the night from ages 2-4 months old. (However, now we are using fitteds and wool covers at night. The combination of Evie becoming a tummy sleeper and drinking 3 bottles each night (at bedtime and two wakings) led to leaks at the front of her waist in our B*umgenius pocket diapers.) Here she is at 3 months in a B*umgenius 3.0:
Personally I prefer not to use pocket diapers during the day because:
*the waterproof outer layer doesn't breathe and Evie gets more rashes
*it's harder to tell when they are wet, just like with a disposable
We used to use pocket diapers on Evie when we were going out shopping or to church, but now we usually just put a disposable on her when we're headed out because there just isn't room in the diaper bag to use cloth while we are out and about. Since we formula feed and she is a spitty baby, our entire diaper bag is taken up with formula dispenser, bottles, burp cloths, bibs, etc. Squeezing in cloth diapers is almost impossible.
However, many people use pocket diapers exclusively and strongly prefer them. One of the primary benefits of pocket diapers is that they are the most like a disposable in design, so babysitters, dads, friends, family, church nursery workers, etc. are generally more comfortable using them. Many of them, B*umgenius included, use velcro, just like disposables do. They work just like the name suggests. The diaper is a shell with a waterproof outer and a stay-dry inner that wicks moisture away from the baby into the diaper's pocket, which you can stuff with whatever absorbent materials you want to. Most people use cotton prefolds, microfiber, hemp or bamboo to stuff pocket diapers, but I've read threads on D*iaperswappers about using things like flannel receiving blankets and even a S*hamwow, in a pinch.
(Not all nursery workers can figure them out, however. Our church nursery worker once put a pocket diaper on Evie backward. Yes, she fastened velcro over her bum instead of over her abdomen. The diaper in question (a H*appy H*einy) was almost identical in terms of design and function to a disposable diaper. To the diaper's credit, it did its job despite the misapplication and when we discovered the mistake during Evie's next diaper change, it hadn't leaked at all!
All-in-ones: Many people like them because they are virtually identical in form and function to a disposable diaper, but I haven't found a single one that I like. Each that I've tried has leaked and/or taken days to dry. I just can't personally recommend them.
Great post... I think I agree with you on all counts. We started out with a stash of BGOS pockets with McQueen, and switched to fitteds and wool w/ some Thirsties covers almost two years ago. Our stash for McQuackQuack is made up of Mutts and OBV Goodmamas, with GMD prefolds (by far the best I have tried) and Thirsties covers. We had a lot of newborn wool, and love, love, LOVED our Loveybums covers, but with two littlies, wool was just neglected and I never sold our nb stash and upsized. Now that he's bigger, McQueen's woolly fluff will fit soon and we'll be back to wool again, especially overnight! I find we don't deal with any rashes with fitteds, but if I see him start to get a little red, 10 minutes or so of nakey time (no small feat with a mobile baby!) clears it right up, and we often go coverless at home.
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU SO MUCH! Now I can finally relax because all of these have been explained in one coherent place. There is so much information out there, and much of it is clouded by selling points that I've been more than a little overwhelmed with the decision! This really helped me clear up some confusion and...I think...make an informed decision about what to buy for Charlie. :) I really appreciate your time and attention to my questions, you're the best!!
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Melba
I had a church nursery worker put a disposable diaper on Andy backwards so...it can't be just the diaper. There are just some people that aren't "street smart" when it comes to diapers I guess. I laughed so hard when I got home and changed him...I think I even took a picture!
ReplyDeleteHi Karen:
ReplyDeleteI've been following your blog since before Lucy was born and I just love watching Evie grow! She's so gorgeous!
Based on your recommendation, I ordered some LoveyBums wool wraps yesterday for our new baby due in 9 days (fingers and toes crossed for a successful adoption) and I let them know that I was referred from your blog (even sent them a link)